"Finally, Take Control of Your Anger and Stress"

"Ex-"Rageaholic" Discovers the Secret of Calm and Easier Relationships"

September 8, 2008

Greetings,

Anger management is difficult, challenging, and many times ineffective.

If you would like to be stress free with less arguing, enjoy your business and personal relationships, and lessen your anger in seconds, then this might be the most important letter you will ever read. Are you tired of anger that may lead to violence?

Stop Anger having Power Over You Now!

It is your choice if you want to be angry or calm. It is time to stop arguing, having energy wasting resentments, and feeling angry all the time. Finally, there is a method that really works. I use it almost daily, not because of my anger, but because it keeps me calm even during challenging conversations. When someone is yelling and screaming and out of control, I simply use these powerful skills. I use these skills almost daily, especially when I first discovered this method, in order to keep my anger at bay.

An Amazing Story

I once watched a couple (who had been separated because of the husband's anger) use this method after my coaching. Living in a halfway house for domestic violence, the wife was "so" terrified to speak for fear she might trigger his anger. He was also afraid of his anger and felt hopeless that they would ever be together again.

He had no trust in himself and was filled with regret regarding his past actions. Finally, he experienced control over anger using this simple method. He spoke honestly how difficult his anger was on his life, that his father was the same way. He wants to change and finally felt hopeful with the changes already made in a few minutes. There was still more work to do to bring her back home, yet this was a starting point. Everybody was in tears watching them hold hands.

Will my anger ever go away?

Unless you are a guru on the highest mountain with no other people around, the answer is “No”. Yet now you can have powerful tools to diminish your anger and stress in minutes, maybe seconds. However, sometimes anger can be a good emotion if used wisely.

Why is Anger Helpful?
Here is a Secret Not Many People Know, Even Therapists.

Anger and other negative emotions such as frustration, irritability, guilt, and so on are barometers. They tell us whether our needs are being satisfied or not. For example, if someone is late for a meeting over and over, they probably are not satisfying your value for respect, consideration, cooperation, etc. Because your needs are not satisfied, your emotions become anger, irritation and frustration. Therefore, the needs you value do control your emotions. If you can always satisfy your needs/values over 50% of the time, then your emotions will be positive.

Learn What Values Are Missing From Your Life.

It can be difficult to identify your values. In a few minutes, even seconds, you can identify what values are missing. Find out how to satisfy your values using your own choices to make your emotions become positive. No anger, no stress, just an easier day and abundant energy. Yes, anger and stress rob you of energy.

Resentments + Stress = NO Energy

Yes that person that you are resenting has power over you. Resentments need so much energy to live. This method helps you to relieve resentments. Plus, why would you want someone to have power over you? Why would you want to be angry? Only if you are willing to change and enrich your life, then read on.

ANGER is a huge challenge to dissolve. Stop BLOWING UP!

Someone I know has a huge anger "challenge". I would witness it in my workshops, as he would become frustrated and irate talking about his ex-wife. He would turn red and look as if he would burst.

It scared everyone in the workshop. I helped him use this method, and in seconds he was calm again, only seconds to dissolve this massive amount of anger. All watched in disbelief and amazement as he calmed down.

Don't you want to have an easier life with inner peace, patience and calm in minutes, sometimes seconds?

Of course you do. We all want more peace, ease, and patience. With this method, change happens fast. It really is a miracle how much calm and ease I have after I use this method. The more I use it, the saner I stay. I am able to hear anything without getting upset as I have in the past.

How Do You Communicate When You Are Angry?

You do not communicate: anger to others is totally dysfunctional and kills communication. Anger's excessive intensity scares the other person. In fact, any time we use anger and its kin of blame, guilt, shame or fear, communication stops dead. Again, I want to emphasize: there is no communication when anger and its relatives are present.

Fear Works in the short run, yet you pay in the long run.

FEAR when you express with anger and violence does work and get you what you want, if you want to pay for it later. We always pay for it with guilt and shame later. When you are calmer you get what you want easier and with no negative residual affects. Think about it when you use rage and anger to get what you want, do you really enjoy it in the long run? Especially if you are in jail?

Why cause others or yourself useless pain with your Anger? There are new methods to deal with anger,
easier and faster

Now, I know you are probably skeptical. That is normal and healthy. Let me give you 4 good reasons I can back up what I claim:

Reason 1:

I know the consequences of what anger and stress has already done to my life and the others that I affected. The anger had to be stopped or I would become physically sick from the stress. We all know what high blood pressure can do. Emotionally the abuse can be worse to an angry person so I found a method that helped me.

Reason 2:

I use anger management skills and exercises daily. Yes, my anger develops so quickly, it is difficult to stop. However, I have power over it now. My friends and relationships have seen a positive change. Even my mom has seen a much-enjoyed transformation. Moreover, I was able to stay calm talking with her and to stay helpful through very difficult times, especially the challenges when her husband died.

Reason 3:

Three years ago, I created World Empathy Day. I am dedicated to help calm the world by sharing different skills to help all become calmer and joyful. Hundreds of participants from countries all over the world are sharing my knowledge and practice on a weekly basis through e-mail tips and through telephone seminars. Please see http://www.empathyday.com/

Reason 4:

Thousands of people are learning these calming skills. The emails I receive and comments from workshop participants are amazing. It is astounding to watch anger in others melt away with just one sentence that I teach them. It does not take weeks to teach this, just a few minutes.

Names are withheld in the testimonials
for the sake of confidentiality.

A participant in World Empathy Day states, "I received an e-mail from my mother. I was fuming and ready to call her and bite her head off. However, I used the technique you taught. This really works. Thanks Rick."

Warning: Do NOT buy any Anger Management CD
unless it meets the following 5 criteria

There is a lot of confusion surrounding our field. I want to give you 5 criteria: elements you absolutely, positively must have for any solution.

1: The discussion must explain exactly how this method works and why you can become calm in seconds.

2: It's NOT a touchy feely method. Touchy Feely methods are outdated and ineffective. You do not need to "Feel the Feelings" as most methods demand.

3: It's Fast ... a respected method learned in minutes not weeks. There is no fluff in the method. Realistically, you only learn what is needed to bring you an easier life.

4: It becomes more powerful over time. Eventually, you should use a method as a quick-fix strategy to cleanse your mind of negative emotions.

5: There should be bonus tracks that are powerful exercises to rid excess anger and help you work through situations. Ending resentments should come quickly and easily.

I made a CD for MY anger.
I am sharing the secrets with you
that has worked for me.

Listen to me explain this CD

After years of study, workshops and reading books, I developed a CD for myself to help control anger. It works fantastic, as in a few minutes my anger is turned to calm and positive energy. I am including additional tracks and bonuses that will help your success, plus a guarantee.

Learn this method in minutes, not weeks. You do not need to go to classes or workshops. Just listen to this CD and use what you need. You will have my support in a bonus private consultation and telephone seminar.

It is senseless to struggle with your anger.
Find your natural peace of mind
learning and using this method.

"An owner of a business stated, "I used to scream and yell at my employees for minor mistakes. I was out of control. They are really glad that I learned this method . In fact, the absenteeism rate is next to zero where it used to be enormous."

Here is a summary of the benefits you receive:

1) Calm yourself instantly … Better health from less stress and stress reducing drugs. Of course talk to your Doctor before stopping any drugs

2) Enjoy having fewer family arguments and less bickering … More quality and easier relationships. Family get togethers are easier and more fun as you use these skills quietly, even during stressful moments.

3) Better business relationships … Easier communication with customers, clients and patients. You will offer better service as you stay calm during their stress meaning easier sales and trusting long term relationships.

4) Listen effectively when you stay calm ... Build trust faster in your personal or business relationships. Hear and understand what they are really saying. It is a gift to another to be able to stay focused on them and really try to understand their position. This very process brings immediate clarity and quality into your life!

5) Learn the technique in minutes ... No need to go to classes for weeks, the method works instantly, guaranteed (see below).

6) Sleep soundly through the night ... Your needs and values are gold to your well-being. You will learn how to use them effectively and efficiently. Use the CD before bed and sleep more soundly.

7) Control compulsions such as drugs, alcohol, overeating, smoking etc. This can be a great substitute for compulsive behaviors such as drugs, smoking, alcohol, overeating and shopping. These exercises calm you down and help you deal with your emotions. This is a healthy strategy, not one that will be harmful.

8) Feel alert yet calm: you will feel a new rejuvenating energy ... Your day will flow easier; ideas will come faster with your blast of positive energy. Isn't it interesting that this exercise boosts your energy level while you stay calm and positive!

9) Receive 5 additional bonus tracks using the same technique for different situations ... Examples use your skills in different daily situations.

10) Accept a generous guarantee ... Feel safe and secure with this investment

"I learned to understand the person I resented. Losing the resentment of many years then came easily. This process has brought back joy to my life."

Now, you are probably wondering
how and why I can do all those things

·         Let me explain. This single CD will not change the way you live your life. What it will do is show you simple and easy skills to remove stress and anger. Ok, it may change you a little, but in a very powerful positive way.

·         You will learn why these techniques work and understand why it is so simple to alleviate anger and stress, which lead to conflict. You may even enjoy your anger as the CD tells you why it is important to identify this emotion.

·         After the explanation, I will lead you into the exercise. It can take from mere seconds up to five minutes to use the method. I coach you through each step slowly and you will feel calm immediately and begin to enjoy an ease-filled day the first time you use it.

·         There is another track (without the coaching help) that is a little faster. Sometimes I use one track or for challenging situations, sometimes both. You may wish to use the CD in a variety of ways.

In addition, there are bonus tracks: simple discussions and explanations showing you how to achieve energy in seconds, to realize the importance of gratitude and of self-forgiveness. There is also an exercise that actually makes red lights enjoyable!

There is much humor in this CD even though the messages are serious. As I said, I listen to parts of this CD daily, as it is a great foundation for daily calmness plus energy.

You get at least 100 times your money's worth!

It took me several years of workshops with accompanying practice to learn and utilize the skills I am sharing with you. Because I take out the fluff that did not pertain to this topic, I am saving you years of study and simplifying your practice. You are saving hundreds, maybe thousands using this CD, not to mention the painful cost to you of not using it!

In summary, here is what you get:

In one CD, you will receive the skills and practice techniques to calm yourself in seconds.
The Exercises will provide you a positive energy immediately, that helps your day flow easier. Complicated decisions come easier and faster.
In the bonus tracks, you will receive techniques for self-forgiveness and for building additional emotional energy for yourself and others. You will become skilled at destroying any self-blame with its accompanying sense of guilt. Learn how to calm yourself at a red light while waiting for the green!
If you respond now, you pay only $19.97 because of our Fifth Anniversary Sale. The bonuses will be gone at the end of the month. Act now, you have nothing to lose but your anger and stress.

Act immediately and receive the following bonuses:

Since I know it is 100% to your benefit to act right away, I want to sweeten the pot and give you every possible reason to say YES today! If you respond immediately, you'll also receive the following:

Free bonus 1:

1/2 hour free consultation to talk about using the CD or to work on any life challenges you are having. Value $75.00

Free bonus 2:

Receive 1 free Teleseminar of your choosing usually costing $20.00.
Learn advanced skills for communicating easier.
Ask any questions about this CD or any challenges you may have.

You can't lose with our 100%,
ironclad, money back guarantee

By the way, these bonuses are yours to keep even in the unlikely event you decide to use our ironclad money back guarantee: Take 2 months to examine and practice these calming methods on the bonus tracks. If all does not live up to your expectations after this time, you will not be out one red cent. Just return it and we will refund your entire payment.

Remember: The more you let anger control you, the more likely you will sometime/somewhere become VIOLENT.

Do not let yourself become another statistic!

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To your fast success,
Rick Goodfriend

P.S. The free consultation will help you fine-tune any questions you may have. If you order now I will add an extra half hour to the consultation, a value of $125.00 because I want you to succeed in living a better, peaceful life.

P.P.S. Teleseminars will teach you additional skills with powerful listening and expressing techniques, which totally change the way you communicate with others. You will be able to build instant trust in both your business and your personal life.

P.P.P.S. Remember your life will be much easier and peaceful when you use this method.

You will finally have power over your anger. What is the worth of calm in your life?

"I get so irritated at my children. Now I know how to calm myself before I explode. Being calmer, it is even easier to get them to do their homework ."